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Same time, Same Place....

by Reinder van Weering in Events & Agenda , 03 juli 2003

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Halfway the eighties, the Amsterdam Jacks introduced the first ‘safe sex jack off parties’ in Amsterdam. These steamy communal jack-off nights showed that safe sex could also be hot sex and were an absolute success. In undies or Adam’s costume, dozens of young and older guys spent a night of hot sexy fun together. But some ten years ago these parties seemed to have gone out of style and silently disappeared from local nightlife.

But since some time jack-off nights have made a victorious come-back. The Stablemaster has them for some years already, and also the Argos (Sex On Sunday) and the Cockring have begun organizing similar events. And now Same Place, a location just outside the centre of town at the Nassaukade, each Monday opens its doors to welcome you with warm, open and very naked arms.

The motto of this erotic café says that ‘freedom is the right not to have to lie about yourself’ and its website is dedicated to all the people who’re suffering from discrimination on grounds of sexual preference or lifestyle. In short a nightspot that isn’t afraid to take a political stand.
Each Mondaynight from 21.00 hrs on it’s ‘boner night’, also known as After Weekend Sex Party, organized by Frans and Fayo. Always on the lookout for inspiring initiatives, our roving Gay News reporter altruistically dropped his boxershorts to take a peek for you.

As soon as you’re inside, you notice the completely relaxed atmosphere. Dress code for the evening is at most one piece of clothing, but inside everyone appears to be so at ease that complete nudity doesn’t make for any discomfort. At the bar Frans makes sure strangers soon become friends. And the step from talk to more intimate contact is a small one.

Inside the place turns out to be much bigger than you thought. Near the entrance, to your left, is a dressing room. Followed by the big bar. On the side, a couple of couches inviting to more intimate contact in two/three/etc-somes. Next to the bar is a surprisingly large area with couches and a platform, not much in use, since most visitors prefer to retire to the cellar. And there, under the low ceiling, a lot is going on. A small bar, a couple of comfortable couches, a darkroom. And for the lover of kink a St. Andrew’s cross and a sling.

Erotic energy

In the Same Place you won’t see the endless wandering, checking out and seizing up that makes cruising in other places often so tedious. The guys here seem to know what they came for and get into action with ease and alacrity, with no apparent need for that aura of anonimity so irritating elsewhere. Relaxed, easy- going, friendly. And every time someone new wanted to be part of an ongoing group engaged in sexplay, he wouldn’t meet resisting hands, but simply joined and was taken up by the group as a matter of course.

While at the same time it’s clear nobody will try to force himself upon you against your will.
So a Mondaynight in the Same Place can safely become a new highlight in your weekly calendar. You’ll feel more than welcome. And there’s a fat chance you’ll have a most satisfying evening, in every respect.

Every Monday After Weekend Sex Party in Same Place, Nassaukade 120 (corner Tweede Hugo de Grootstraat) from 21.00 till 01.00 uur.



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